Tags: Irish, life, luck, St. Paddy's Day, St. Patrick's Day, winning
I honestly don’t know if the Irish are anymore lucky than any other group of people. I have never witnessed a lucky moment of an Irish man (I happen to live in an area with a huge Irish immigrant population, which would up my chances of seeing a moment like this). I have witnessed Irish men drink an exorbitant amount of alcohol, more than seems humanly possible, and live to see the next day, but that’s really about it.
What I do know is that I have no luck. OK, maybe I have some luck, but it’s mostly bad luck. I have never won anything I didn’t work for. Not even a raffle. Literally nothing. OK, maybe like 5 bucks on a scratch off ticket, but nothing substantial ever. You may think having no good luck wouldn’t really effect one’s life, but it has. I don’t find gambling to be fun, nor do I enjoy playing the lottery. Call me crazy, but I just don’t like seeing my money slip away so quickly for nothing because there is no way I am going to win. “Winning?”
It’s not that I don’t like to take risks, but I just don’t like my odds in the game of chance. I don’t know if I believe in destiny, but I do believe in fate. Being in the right place and the right time. I don’t know if everything happens for a reason, because I’ve seen some lucky bastards win things who definitely didn’t deserve them, but I guess that is often characteristic of luck. Luck is not merit-based.
I still say things like, “wish me luck,” and “good luck,” but those are just sayings really. I mean, I really do wish that I could have some good luck. I have a tendency to have a lot of bad luck poured on me at the same time. But I guess people have a tendency not to recognize good fortune when it is upon them. Because things always could be worse. Seriously. I’m lucky to have my health, my love, my family, my freedom, my job, my home, my friends. I could be sick, single, an orphan with no job or friends and call prison home. But I’m not.
But I will always want more. I am a good person. I know a lot of good people who do good things. I wish luck to all those who deserve it. If only there was some fairness in luck.